
Date Of Birth: February 15, 1952
Date Of Death: December 6, 2009
Paul Vincent Rotella, 57, of Indianapolis, formerly of San Francisco and New York City, died peacefully on Sunday, December 6th. Fittingly, he chose 4:20 as his departure time for the great gig in the sky.Paul was born in 1952 to Frank and Matilda (Pignone) Rotella, in the Bronx, NY. A student at several very nice Catholic schools, he made a complete recovery from the faith by the age of 18. He attended Richmond University in Staten Island before heading for the West Coast, where he met his future wife and fellow recovering Catholic, Mary Joseph Mason.California was where Paul discovered his appreciation for the Epicurean philosophy, and a lifelong love affair with good things was born. He worked at Say Cheese and The Tinder Box, introducing people to simple pleasures. He himself was of simple tastes, settling for the best wherever he went. Alas, Fate being the fickle mistress she is, he and his new family soon had to depart the Bay Area for Indiana.Indianapolis, its manifold charms aside, was not an ideal locale for a dude accustomed to looking at the infinite majestic ocean on a daily basis. He frequently experienced difficulties adjusting to the quirks and customs of his new home. As a man of Sicilian-Italian descent (Eye-Talian, as he was fondly called by many) he was something of a novelty to many people he met. He reconciled himself with his surroundings and took consolation in his loved ones; friends, children both born and adopted, and extended family. He attended Butler University and earned his Masters of Science degree in Family Therapy.In the game of Trivial Pursuit, Paul was frequently made to answer two questions to everyone else’s one, due to his uncannily thorough command of the subject matter. A man of perfect Jaded Optimism, he was a true Star Trek fan, preferring Deep Space Nine’s cracked utopia above all other incarnations, largely due to the cynical view presented by the brilliant cast. Truly, he was a man of infinite jest, so long as one appreciated gallows humor.Paul lived life in his own idiom; he was a father of three and a Dad to legions. He was preceded in death by his wife, Mary Joseph Mason Rotella, and is survived by three sons; Joshua P., Benjamin J., and Zachary D. He will be remembered fondly by everyone who knew him, and will be missed more than can ever be known.







Maureen Killilea says
Let go and let God Paul…
Diana says
It made me fondly remember all of the good advice and good laughs he gave me over the years. He made my wedding day very special and i will never forget his kindness.
Ed Olsen says
Thanks kids
Sue Kennedy says
Dear Josh, I was so sorry to hear about your Dad’s passing. This is a tough transition, my own dad died at just about the same age. I hope you and your brothers find strength in one another. The good in your parents will be with you always. All my best, Sue
Peter Brosnan says
It’s his imagination I’ll remember. How your mind could soar when you spoke with him…
“All of the nights we’d harmonize till dawn.
I never laughed so long
So long
So long…
Paul Minchin says
Hey Guys,
One of the most memorable and funny (there were lots of them) times I spent with your Dad was when we were kids on Staten island and I stayed over in your Dad’s family home. We had stayed up all night and just before dawn your Dad said “Hey,we should go sit on the front stoop and play the sun and watch the guitar rise”. Call me silly but to this day I roll on the floor when I recall it. Need I say more.I think of him daily and always will.
Jerry says
I’m am so sorry to have missed Paul’s funeral. He was such a great man and so much fun to talk across the fence with. Springdale will be a little less interesting without him.
Tarina says
Your family is in my thoughts during this anniversary. <3